I know i can pick up girls, I always have them laughing and I can make them feel really comfortable for me. At the moment its about becoming MORE social and having the ability to meet new people and expand my interests. I have hobbies (rock climbing, ultimate frisbee, music), and I am attempting to get outside my comfort zone and become more passionate.
I’m reading the way of the superior man right now. You should too, It’s got some good stuff, especially about lifestyle.
What do I wear on a normal day out?
On bottom I like to rock colored khakis (green, gray), corduroys, and occasionally I’ll wear jeans but I like to stay away from them..
On top I go with branded t-shirts, crew-neck sweatshirts, patterned flannels occasionally, button-up short and long sleeve shirts. It’s kind of a modern skater look.
As for shoes: Nike Mavrik lows, moccasins, 2 pears of Sperry Topsiders (gray and black), some running shoes (asics), slip-on pumas that are torn to shit (dont usually wear those around).
I like to fold up my pants 1-2 times depending on the show I’m wearing. I’ll wear a slightly curved hat sometimes always tipped up so that the ladies can check the doo. As were getting into the winter I’ve been wearing a beanie on top of my head, but uncovered so my hair’s still visible. I like this look, its more mysterious. I’ll post a pic of some outfits on here eventually, but today I’m not doing any pua (gotta study)
Wellll lets just say that I didn’t get any numbers today (yet).
After walking around the plaza for 2 hours, girls passing me by every which way, I didn’t cold approach one of them. I saw a couple girls sitting on benches that were cute but I was nervous to sit down next to them. I felt like it would be creepy.
I finally told an hb4 I liked her shirt when I was passing by, that helped my confidence a bit.
Afterwards, I got out of class and walked up to an hb7 and asked what everyone was gathered around for. It was an acapella group about to sing a song, and I didn’t know what to say from there so i walked out. Should I have asked about her outfit? Something? Fuckkk.
I know I can fucking do this, It’s just that when I see a girl walking somewhere, I get AA and am too afraid to approach. I wish I had a wing.
Goal: 1 Cold-approach. After that, I’ll probably do more.
Today’s election day. I’m going to go turnin my ballot (forgot to mail it in) and hopefully meet a few new people along the way.
I’ll post an update later to tell how it goes.
— Rick H.